To enable our meetings to be truly constructive, it is necessary to recognize and repress three destructive forces that can cause dissension and eventually destroy the group.

The f irst is the discussion of any religion. Our program is open to all regardless of our various beliefs — or lack of belief. Each member’s understanding of a Higher Power is strictly a personal, private choice.

The second danger is gossip. We are here to share our feelings, attitudes and reactions to our situation - to help us in applying the principles of Families Anonymous to our own lives. Careless discussion of other people’s personal difficulties is contrary to the principles of our program. What
we say here — stays here!

The third destructive force is dominance. F.A. is based on suggestion, interchange of experience, and rotation of leaders. No member should direct, assume authority, or give advice. Our leaders are chosen, not to govern,
but to serve.